My Headache, My Comfort, My Six-Year-Old Boy

Today The Middle turned six. He has been both a joy and a pain in the ass since the day he decided to enter my world. And, of course, I say that with love.

He made his appearance three weeks ahead of schedule. It was a Monday. The Hubbin’ had gotten up at 3:00 in the morning and driven over four hours to work. He had just pulled onto the job site and parked his truck when I called him with the news that I was in labor. “Dude,” he told the guy who had ridden with him that week, “wake up, you gotta get out of the truck.” He then made a four-hour drive back home.

The labor was so much easier than it had been with The Oldest. I was sent away from the hospital once. Told to “go walk around”. I took the opportunity to exchange some of the baby shower gifts that I had gotten double of, bought a watch with a seconds hand so I could time my contractions and glided around on a shopping cart for about 40 seconds every two minutes while my miserable ass was seized with the agony of contractions.

Upon my return to the hospital I told the lady at admitting, “I’m back and I’m ready for my epidural.” She giggled. “No. Really.” Something in my eyes told her that I didn’t want to hear any shit about the checkmark on my birth plan next to the box that read “Natural Childbirth”.

Six hours after I went into labor, I held in my arms an amazing little baby who had been almost wiped clean by the nurses (and let me go off on a tangent here, I mean really, they hand you a little baby, still somewhat covered in that white, smudgy stuff, and then every gathers around, their eyes filled with expectation, silently encouraging you to kiss the baby, and therefore the slime—ick!).

The six years since then have been the sweetest, most amazing and utterly aggravating times I can remember. He is at once the biggest cuddler, the sweetest, most considerate, gentle and humorous little boy. That shell also encases the loudest, rudest, most obnoxious, abstinent person. He is a little boy who loves superheroes and still sleeps with the Winnie-the-Pooh that he’s had since he was a baby, and my heart melts. He is also a little boy who loves to use the word “penis” in as many variations as he can during a conversation and yells across the crowded playground at his brother, the “fucking jackass”, and my heart sinks. And, no matter what he’s done, at the end of the day, he snakes his arm around my neck, tells me that he loves me, and I melt.

And, yes, I gave him the damn gift.

In 4 years that Pooh Bear will still be snuggled up to that sweet, curse-word spewing mouth
In 4 years that Pooh Bear will still be snuggled up to that sweet, curse-word spewing mouth
Yes, son. You do have a lot of balls. Some things haven't changed in the past 3 years.
Yes, son. You do have a lot of balls. Some things haven't changed in the past 3 years.

Happy Birthday, my sweet Muffin!!

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4 Replies to “My Headache, My Comfort, My Six-Year-Old Boy”

  1. hahahahahahaha! That last photo is hilarious!

  2. I’d like to echo those sentiments! I can’t stop laughing. Aren’t boys interesting? They are such little enigmas. At once so rough and tough and then little balls of love (no pun intended).

    1. disgruntledmom says: Reply

      They are indeed something else.
      They regularly leave me speechless and gasping for words…or air…depends on what they’ve been up to.

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